DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a ...

would prefer that we send a single message, using “we” in the note with one person writing and each individual signing.

My husband believes that when we receive an indivisible gift, both he and I should write separate thank-you note messages.

Pamela, or Pam for short, was a top name from the 1950s through the 1970s. It has Greek origins and means “all sweetness,” ...