My mom is turning 95 years young on May 30 of this year. My siblings and I are gathering birthday cards for a surprise “card shower” for her. I would be most grateful if you would publish my request ...

We think that is overkill for one weekend and would overshadow each event that should have their own special time.’ ...

DEAR DISRESPECTED: Your mileage may vary (quite literally) but making a 10-hour trip for the party and then, say, a few weeks ...